Shit for brains

I just hate it when people behave like total jerks. Truth to be told i would rather ship them off to Timbuktu. Did i mentioned that i hate them?
Some brothers are a pain in the arse, totally single minded creatures, who care nothing less than themselves and are a bunch of wasted space on earth.
No it's not my brother i'm talking about!! Thank goodness.
They are such a cocky, ignorant bunch who parade around with their new found toys, talk rubbish and have no family values at all. They don't care about their younger siblings like a brother should (in terms of well being.. i shall not get into details) and are so naive despite their age.
I just don't get it. Here we have a guy who gives two hoots about his sister, but when she is with another guy, and when something happens, he's all brotherly and concerned and worried and you get the drift...
But why now?. After all the other times when you just don't care.
Why can't you just be there for her when she needs your help and not be a shelfish prick all the time?
Oh wait! 'Mom and dad are there, they'll handle it'. Oh yeah, what happens when mom and dad are not around anymore?
Okay fine you don't have to babysit her 24/7 but hey just be nice for once.
Why am i so bothered about this anyway? It's not my brother i'm talking about.

Praise the lord. HALLELUJAH!!

It's complicated...

When it comes to relationships, why does someone say 'It's complicated'?
I never really understood that phrase until recently. Being in a relationship takes time and effort, so how come some of us just don't feel like getting into one.
a)maybe the past relationship ended badly and being in a new one is just too soon for the person.
b)They are not over their ex. Which is difficult for them because they can't move on and all they really want is to be with their ex but logic says that it would never work out.

For my significant other

SOME say love is blind. Other's say rebound-love would not last. Well what is love then?

BEING in love is the most beautiful thing in the world. The feeling is unexplainable. Sort of like magic. There's the butterflies in the stomach feeling whereby you feel the rush envelop in the stomach. A good feeling nevertheless, like a mini explosion. The feeling of being alive.

Falling in love with someone is no easy task. It takes time to develop those mushy feelings for someone. It is usually said that having a close relationship, given time can trigger some of those feelings. A relationship in this case would mean friendship.

Good friends can eventually become boyfriend or girlfriend material. It's just the matter of understanding the other's needs and giving respect. Attraction is key here. There's no disguising the will of attraction for the significant other.

When friends makes sacrifices and goes through lengths just to be with that special someone. It's either because of goodwill or there's something more. Maybe goodwill is too cliche of a word here. Don't get me wrong but as human beings we can sense when a person is doing a gesture out of love or just for friendship. There's always that feeling of warmth, but the mystery of the heart often cloud our judgement of reasoning.

What reasoning you might ask? Love with your heart and not with your head! Yes and so comes the part where we learn to love someone for who they are and not for the simplicities of deeds. Well being friendly and helping out a friend in need is not sinful or a wrong thing to do.

But when you actually care for someone so much, it doesn't matter anymore.

Somebody close to me once said "When your are in love, looks don't matter anymore." Am I blind then? Is it a blind love. Definitely not I think. Looks definitely play an initial part during the courtship period but that criteria eventually fades away and when looks don't matter anymore the head stops thinking and the heart takes over.

Kinda dramatic if you ask me.

As for me I hope that love treats me kind, this time around...